I am meeting with two couples currently as they prepare for their wedding day. It is always enjoyable to meet with couples as they prepare, but it is so difficult for them to sense the extent to which they will be effected by the decision to marry. It is truly a primary tool in God’s toolbox to change us.
I am reading Tim Keller’s book called The Meaning of Marriage. I wanted to remember this thought and so I share it with you as well, “The Christian principle that needs to be at work is Spirit-generated selflessness–not thinking less of yourself or more of yourself but thinking of yourself less. It means taking your mind off yourself and realizing that in Christ your needs are going to be met and are, in fact, being met so that you don’t look at your spouse as your savior. People with a deep grasp of the gospel can turn around and admit that their selfishness is the problem and that they’re going to work on it. And when they do that, they will often discover an immediate sense of liberation, of waking up from a troubling dream.”
Much wisdom here for all of us …no matter what season of life we are in!








